BOOK OF THE YEAR
This book is your personal guide to becoming the right woman and recognizing the right man
Some women lose months and years in relationships where they felt loved, but discovered there was no commitment in view.
The Forever Girlfriend is a deeply honest two-book series for women who are ready to stop measuring love by how long they've waited and start measuring it by the clarity, commitment, and peace it brings. After reading it, you'd make better relationship decisions with greater clarity, confidence, and self-respect.
If you've ever smiled through the questions, "So... when's the wedding?", "Are you both on the same page?", "Is he serious about you?", "Will he commit to you?" while quietly asking yourself the same thing, these pages will feel less like a book and more like the conversation you wish someone had with you years ago.
This one has the potential to change the questions you ask yourself.
Genre: Non-fiction
Total series read: 210 mins
Not romance, anti-marriage or self-help.
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Watch how this blueprint is shattering situationships and restoring identity globally.
Real impact from women who dropped the pretense and reclaimed their standard.
I spent years over-performing in situationships thinking I just needed to prove my worth. This blueprint completely exposed the game I was playing and gave me the strength to walk away and set real boundaries.
— MICHELLE R.
Pastor Andrew doesn't sugarcoat anything. The concept of 'furnishing the empty palace' changed everything for me. This isn't just a relationship book; it's an internal deliverance manual.
— SARAH M.
The boundary protocols in Chapter 4 are worth ten times the price of this book. For the first time in my life, I know exactly how to protect my peace and enforce the Kingdom standard.
— AMARA O.
Real impact from women who dropped the pretense and reclaimed their standard.
I read this book and cried for three days straight. Not because it was sad, but because I resonated with Blessing's story, she described the exact conversation I'd had with my boyfriend about marriage. And I realized I wasn't alone in my insanity. I was just in a pattern. I left him two weeks later. Best decision I've made in a decade.
— Michelle, 34
Pastor Andrew doesn't sugarcoat anything. The concept of 'furnishing the empty palace' changed everything for me. This isn't just a relationship book; it's an internal deliverance manual.
— SARAH, 26.
I bought this book as a gift to my sister who's been with her boyfriend for 5 years waiting for a proposal. She read it and confronted him about his timeline. He got defensive and revealed he 'might never want marriage.' She moved out the next month. She's grateful, angry, and starting over at 39. This book saved her from another decade of waiting.
— Lisa, 48
Real impact from women who dropped the pretense and reclaimed their standard.
The part about biology and time literally changed my life. I had been with my guy for 7 years and was still 'waiting to see.' This book made me realize waiting wasn't romantic, it was stupid. I left, started dating intentionally, and got engaged to someone else. I'm pregnant now. I wouldn't have any of this if I'd kept waiting.
— Jasmine, 45
I read it and recognized myself in every single story. But here's what shocked me: I also recognized how I was doing this in my career, my friendships, my entire life. I was a 'forever' person in every relationship always giving, never asking for reciprocity. This book taught me to recognize extraction in all forms.
— Patricia, 41
My therapist recommended this. She said it would help me process my breakup faster than talking alone could. She was right. Within a week of reading it, I stopped crying and started getting angry. That anger became my fuel to rebuild. I'm not saying it fixed me, but it moved me.
— Sophia, 43
Real impact from women who dropped the pretense and reclaimed their standard.
I haven't even broken up with him yet but I'm reading this like a manual for what to do next time. I'm taking notes on the red flags. I'm highlighting the screening questions. I'm using this book to prepare for the moment I leave, which I now know is coming. It's like I'm gathering courage on every page.
— Amanda, 45
What shocked me most was realizing that my ex actually did me a favor by refusing to marry me. Not because something was wrong with me, but because I could finally see that he wasn't capable of the kind of love I need. I'm grieving differently now. More clearly.
— Victoria, 29
I'm 47 and I read this thinking I was too old to learn anything new about men. But this book taught me that clarity has no expiration date. I left my situationship and I'm dating now with completely different criteria. I feel like a different woman, even though I haven't met anyone yet.
— Jennifer, 45
Real impact from women who dropped the pretense and reclaimed their standard.
My daughter gave me this book because she was worried about me. I was defensive at first like how dare she think I need a self-help book. But I read it in two days and had three conversations with my boyfriend about marriage. He admitted he doesn't want one. I'm moving out next month. My daughter was right to worry.
— Carol, 52
. I read this and realized I wasn't waiting for *him* to propose. I was waiting for *myself* to feel worthy of being proposed to. That's the realization that changed everything. Now I'm working on that internal piece, but I'm doing it with a man who's already shown me he wants to marry me.
— Keisha, 36
Three months after reading this, I ended my relationship. I'm engaged now. I'm not crediting the book entirely, but I'm crediting it with teaching me to recognize what I actually deserve and to stop settling. That changed my trajectory completely.
— Elizabeth, 44
Real impact from women who dropped the pretense and reclaimed their standard.
I read this and felt seen in a way I've never felt before. Not just the content, but the tone of it. Like Pst. Andrew was angry on my behalf, like he wasn't going to let me make excuses for the wrong man. That tone gave me permission to be angry too and trust me, angry is so much more useful than sad.
— Olamide, 28
I'm recommending this to every woman I know who's been single for more than three years. Because if you've been single that long, you're probably dating someone who doesn't want commitment. And this book teaches you to see it and leave before you become me, I'm 47 years old, still waiting.
— Diana, 47
I bought this book thinking it would be another ‘how to find a husband’ cliché. It’s nothing like that. It is deep, confronting, and beautifully written. It doesn’t promise marriage as a reward; it offers wholeness, clarity and dignity whether marriage happens or not. I wish I had read this ten years ago.
— Tola, 39
Real impact from women who dropped the pretense and reclaimed their standard.
I had to keep putting the book down to breathe. It felt like someone had followed me through my twenties, thirties and forties and turned my private heartbreak into language. I’ve been the forever girlfriend more than once, and this is the first time I feel seen without being blamed. I finished the last chapter with tears in my eyes and a strange, gentle hope in my chest.
– Chika, 44
My secret shame is that I have watched two men marry other women after ‘dating’ me for years. I thought I was just foolish. Now I see patterns, I see my worth, and I see how my faith can hold me while I make better choices. It’s uncomfortable, but it is healing.
– Lorraine, 41
I didn’t expect to cry in the first few pages. The way Mr. Andrew describes being ‘almost chosen’ felt like reading my diary. I’m not usually emotional, but this book made me defenseless. It’s like sitting with a wise, honest friend who refuses to let you minimize your pain.
– Amina, 36
Real impact from women who dropped the pretense and reclaimed their standard.
What surprised me most was how kind the book is. It tells the truth without insulting women or demonizing men. It helped me see the men who strung me along as broken too, but without excusing their choices. I walked away with compassion and boundaries, and that combination feels powerful.
– Olivera, 42
I’m newly single at 47 after an engagement that never became a wedding. Reading The Forever Girlfriend felt like someone was holding my hand and telling me, ‘You are not crazy, and you are not alone.’ I underlined so many sentences that my copy looks like a workbook.
– Maria, 47
I finished both Books in two nights and then started again with a journal. The way Pastor Andrew asks reflective questions are brutal and necessary. I confronted my fear of being alone and my habit of staying too long. It’s not just a book; it’s therapy on paper.
– Hannah, 27
Real impact from women who dropped the pretense and reclaimed their standard.
Some pages were hard to read because they mirrored my choices too closely, but the author’s tone made it possible to keep going. He doesn’t condemn; he invites. I felt invited to forgive myself, to grieve my past and to re-enter my life with more self-respect.
– Meyer, 50
What stayed with me after finishing the book was the gentle insistence that I am more than my relationship status. That sounds simple but living as a single woman in her mid-forties, it’s revolutionary. I walked away feeling less desperate and more grounded.
– Rachael, 44
This is a book for women who are tired of pretending they’re fine. I have never highlighted a book this much. Every chapter had at least one sentence that felt like it was written for me. The parts about being strung along and then watching him marry someone else were almost too relatable.
– Juliette-Noiemie, 43
Real impact from women who dropped the pretense and reclaimed their standard.
This book doesn't promise that every reader will find a husband. What it does promise and delivers a clearer understanding of unhealthy relationship patterns and the confidence to make wiser decisions.
— Esther, 44
This book sits at the intersection of psychology, spirituality and raw truth.
– Sandra, 45
This book is a soft place to land for women who are tired of carrying their heartbreak in secret.
– Farida, 45
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